Just Engaged? Here’s Exactly What to Do Next (A Stress-Free Guide)
First things first — CONGRATULATIONS!
You’re engaged, you’re excited, and if you’re like most couples… you’re also asking:
“Okay… what do we do now?”
This guide walks you through the exact first steps to take after getting engaged so you feel confident, organized, and ready to start planning a wedding that feels like you — not a carbon copy of someone else’s big day.
1. Celebrate… before you plan anything
Before the Pinterest boards, budgets, or timeline stress, take a moment to celebrate your engagement.
Go out for a special dinner
Pop champagne
Take a weekend trip
Tell close family & friends in person
These moments matter — soak them in.
Pro Tip: Schedule an engagement session during this time to capture the excitement. (Link to your engagement portfolio.)
2. Talk About Your Vision as a Couple
Every wedding starts with a conversation.
Sit down together and talk through the non-negotiables:
What type of wedding do you imagine?
(Big celebration? Intimate? Indoor? Outdoor? Destination?)How do you want the day to feel?
(Fun? Relaxed? Luxury? Sentimental?)What’s most important to each of you?
(Photography? Food? Venue? Experience?)
These answers will guide the rest of your planning.
3. Determine a Realistic Budget Range
You don’t need an exact number right now — just a comfortable range.
Factor in:
Guest count
Venue type
Travel costs
Photography + videography
Catering, décor, florals, etc.
Remember: Guest count is the #1 driver of cost, so start there.
4. Choose a General Wedding Date or Season
You don’t need to lock in the exact date yet, but having a season (summer 2026 / fall 2026) helps you:
Scope out venue availability
Connect with photographers early
Avoid peak travel weekends
Couples who book early get the best selection of venues + top vendors.
5. Book Your Photographer & Venue First
Your venue and photographer are the foundation of your wedding day.
They shape:
The look
The experience
The timeline
The overall vibe
If photography is a top priority (and for most couples, it is), don’t wait.
At Ink & Opal Co., we help couples plan stress-free, modern, heartfelt wedding days — and we book 12–18 months in advance.
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6. Create a Shared Vision Board
This is where the planning becomes fun.
Use Pinterest or Notion to gather ideas on:
Color palettes
Venues
Ceremony styles
Floral inspiration
Photography vibes
Share it with your photographer to help them understand your style.
7. Build a Simple Wedding Planning Timeline
You don’t need a detailed plan yet — just key milestones:
12–18 months out: book venue + photographer
9–12 months: book hair, makeup, florist, catering, DJ
6–9 months: engagement session, invites, save-the-dates
3–6 months: finalize décor, fittings, menu
0–3 months: timeline meeting, venue walkthrough, final payments
A simple roadmap eliminates 90% of the overwhelm.
8. Take Your Engagement Photos
Engagement photos are more than cute pictures — they help you:
Get comfortable with your photographer
Announce your engagement
Use images for save-the-dates
Capture your relationship in this unique season
Your engagement session should feel like a fun date night, not a photoshoot.
9. Start Building Your Dream Vendor Team
You don’t need everyone booked right away — just the essentials.
Highly recommended early vendors:
Photographer
Videographer
Wedding planner
Venue
Hair/makeup
Florist
Choose vendors whose work you genuinely love and who make the process simple + enjoyable.
10. Start Planning Your Day Around Experience, Not Pressure
At the end of the day, the goal isn’t a “perfect” wedding.
It’s a wedding that reflects your relationship.
Your wedding day should feel like the two of you — joyful, meaningful, and grounded in what matters most.
Ready to start planning your dream wedding?
If you’re newly engaged and searching for a photographer who captures genuine emotion, story-driven moments, and the true feeling of your day…
